The Gift of Presence
For nearly two weeks, those of us in the Saint Paul Area Synod have been blessed by the presence of ou[...]
COVID-19 has disrupted nearly everything in the past two years, including the ways in which our congregation, St. Michael’s Lutheran Church, ministers to those who are hurting from terrible tragedies and everyday losses.
At St. Michael's in Roseville, our BeFriender ministry is one avenue through which we try to connect people with each other. Our BeFrienders have been trained to sit with and be with people who need a caring presence. The four foundation principles of BeFriending have a profound impact on those we serve:
As we continued to adapt to COVID disruptions and the changing needs of our congregation, our team realized that we should take advantage of continuing education opportunities to expand our community care. St. Michael’s was fortunate to receive a grant from the Saint Paul Area Synod so our BeFrienders team and clergy could participate in a virtual Suicide Prevention Awareness class with the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI).
Suicide touches many of us in profound ways and we were able to learn some valuable lessons in this QPR training. By allowing ourselves to Question, Persuade and Refer, we may be able to offer hope through positive action. NAMI provided many resources, including techniques to overcome our own emotional reactions that can hinder communication.
The foundation principles of BeFriending that we use are a strong base for the knowledge we received from NAMI. The grant also supplied us every member of our team with a small resource stipend to seek out books or other materials to deepen our individual understanding of mental illness and community care. We are grateful for the resources and opportunities for learning available in our community. We are thankful for the national BeFriender Ministry and the specific grant from the Saint Paul Area Synod used to connect with NAMI.
The more we learn from and collaborate with our neighbors in our community, the stronger our ministries will be in providing faith and hope to those who suffer and are lonely.
Ruth Petersen and Chuck Hanson
Co-leaders of BeFrienders
St. Michael’s Lutheran Church, Roseville